The Role of Women cannot be reduced to a single definition or a fixed life path. As a “Soul Geologist,” I believe every woman is a unique specimen, shaped by her own tectonic history, origin, and the specific pressures she has weathered. Notably, there is no single image of womanhood; instead, each of us carries a complex mineral map of values and choices. My own journey took me from the ballet studios of Split to the frozen diamond mines of Canada, and finally to the serenity of France. Each stage added a new layer to my identity.

Specifically, women move through distinct metamorphic phases. In childhood, we are like soft clay, absorbing the world. In youth, we undergo intense pressure to make decisions that will define our future. During our mature years, we often carry massive responsibilities—as mothers, professionals, and support pillars. However, even as our roles shift, certain “mineral” values remain constant. My fifteen years in Canada taught me that strength is not about avoiding the storm, but about maintaining your structural integrity within it. This is the core of my philosophy of soul geology.

Furthermore, for me, the most important Role of Women is the cultivation of self-respect. We must learn to stand in our own defense. For years, I lived as a servant to other people’s expectations, even enduring a marriage built on an architecture of betrayal. I thought that being a “good woman” meant absorbing all the pain. But I was wrong. True strength lies in setting boundaries as solid as granite. Saying “no” is not an act of aggression; it is an act of self-preservation. It is the only way to protect your internal peace.

Indeed, it is natural to want to be accepted and attractive. Many women enjoy the ritual of dressing up or applying makeup. However, the motivation varies for everyone. Some do it for self-confidence, some for a partner, and others simply enjoy the aesthetics of life. As an engineer, I see this as a form of surface polishing. While biology plays a part in attraction, it does not define our soul’s worth. I no longer dress for the world; I dress for the woman I see in the mirror. I have embraced my uncut diamond style, valuing authenticity over retouched perfection.

Notably, I reject the idea that women can be viewed as a monolith with identical traits. Each of us is an individual with a unique character. Specifically, we shouldn’t be judged by stereotypes, but by our deeds and how we treat ourselves. My current life in France taught me to stop being the “eternal nurturer” of razmaženi men. I learned to be a partner. This shift allowed me to focus on my own art of small mornings, where my needs and desires finally meet.

In conclusion, a woman is first and foremost a person with her own emotions and identity. She can be delicate and hard as basalt at the same time. Her value does not depend on the expectations of society, but on how she chooses to live her truth. Therefore, do not be afraid of your scars or your “asymmetrical” edges. They are what make you a masterpiece. Truly, the Role of Women today is to be the mistress of her own geology. I am Sanja, I am Magma Star, and I am finally enough.